Tuesday, August 05, 2008

Shower

Last weekend my friend Chantel hosted a lovely Welcome Ruby Party for me and my sweet little toot muffin. Love her.

Because I am a bit of a dude, I requested that there be none of the usual games and favors etc... All I needed was to hang out in her beautiful back yard with good friends and food.

Sunday was a beautiful day and I simply can not believe how spoiled we were. We were truly 'showered' with gifts and attention. It was incredible. So many people showed up to show their love for Ruby. Ruby was asleep the entire time. Which was good in a way because it meant that everyone got to have a little snuggle. It was the most socializing I've done in weeks -I was completely spent afterwards.

This cake tasted even better than it looks, if you can believe it?! My friend Katta made it. Love her. It's homemade carrot cake with cream cheese icing. Yummy!
These cupcakes seemed like a good idea at the time. I ordered red icing to be a bit cute with a tad of a Ruby theme. They were tasty in a sinful sort of way but the icing was a bit intense. You really had to commit if you dared indulge. We're talking red lips, teeth, face, fingers, nails... you get the idea.
After several hours and the most incredible shit show involving:a break down of our car (which would be dealt later to the tune of $970 thank you very much) , a sanctioned B&E at my folks place, a Rottweiler calmed with a ham and cheese croissant, a hijacking of my Dad's 1980's, white, convertible mustang... My cute little Hubster arrived from picking his sister up at the ferry. They pulled up with the top down, their twin grins shining and their blond hair flowing in the wind.


They were a titch late but they were in good spirits and there was still plenty of food and love to go around. It was great that Ruby finally got to meet her auntie Claire. Those two are already totally in love and I can tell that they are going to be trouble.Ruby is one lucky little girl. Not only is she loved to bits by her mom and dad, but she is spoiled by all of her friends and family. Check out the amazing sweater that was hand knitted for her by my friend Katta! Isn't it just amazing?
In other news... We had our final midwives appointment last week, which was quite sad, and our little girl is already 11 pounds! She is one healthy little lady.

I got the go ahead on most of the activities that I want to do and have already gone swimming once and for one bike ride. It feels good to exercise again. I am trying to just enjoy the journey towards fitness without obsessing too much. You'd have to know me to know how difficult this is. I'll give you a clue- I had to get the Hubster to hide the scale from me.

I know.

Anyways, I have been away from my Ruby only twice, each time less than an hour, since she was born. And although it is wonderful to have some me time, it does feel very strange (but not bad) to be away from her.

Watching Nicholas give her her first ,practice, bottle of breast milk made me cry.


It was a beautiful and tender sight.

As soon as he was done, I placed her to my breast and clung to her with all of my might.

She is so precious to me.

I cherish every moment her babyhood.


Every moment.

6 comments:

kgirl said...

I want to eat her up. Love package coming soon, I swear. Problem is, I decided to make something too, and I am slow.

Jackie said...

Aren't friends and family grand! we're on a west coast tour right now sharing the baby love and soaking in all up. My chunky monkey is up to 12 lbs already...they grow so quick!!

Loren said...

Are you trying to make me cry? Maybe its just the hormones, but I loved this post. I love that Ruby is getting so much love and that you are settling into a little family cocoon.
Yay for showers! And Ruby's beautiful sweater.
Thank you for the assurance that everything will be okay...I think it will,too.
There is just too much love goin around not to! ;)

Jenn Zahavich said...

Hey Lisa,
I love you guys sooo much and am so thrilled to see you so happy and in love. Sorry to have missed the shower, more sorry to have missed the cupcakes. Can't wait to see little Ruby when we get home, I can't believe how much she's changed since we've been gone.
Sending hugs from Dave and Coady too. xoxoxo

Surprised Suburban Wife said...

You'll be sooo glad you've started the bottles down the road, no matter how heartaching it is to see her "independent". I know what you mean about clinging her to your breast and cherishing the moment though - I still feel that way at every feeding.

rockmama said...

dammit, I'm going to have to make some cupcakes this evening, now you realize! :)

What a lovely day for you and your friends and family. Ruby is just gorgeous! :)